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What about Socialization?

(From Another Angle)

Author Unknown

Two women meet at a playground, where their children are swinging and
playing ball. The women are sitting on a bench watching. Eventually, they begin to talk.

W1: Hi. My name is Maggie. My kids are the three in red shirts—helps me
keep track of them.

 

W2: (Smiles) I'm Terri. Mine are in the pink and yellow shirts. Do you come
here a lot?

W1: Usually two or three times a week, after we go to the library.
 

W2: Wow. Where do you find the time?
 

W1: We home school, so we do it during the day most of the time.
 

W2: Some of my neighbors home school, but I send my kids to public school.
 

W1: How do you do it?
 

W2: It's not easy. I go to all the PTO meetings and work with the kids every
day after school and stay real involved.
 

W1: But what about socialization? Aren't you worried about them being cooped
up all day with kids their own ages, never getting the opportunity for
natural relationships?
 

W2: Well, yes. But I work hard to balance that. They have some friends
who're home schooled, and we visit their grandparents almost every month.
 

W1: Sounds like you're a very dedicated mom. But don't you worry about all
the opportunities they're missing out on? I mean they're so isolated from
real life—how will they know what the world is like—what people do to
make a living—how to get along with all different kinds of people?
 

W2: Oh, we discussed that at PTO, and we started a fund to bring real people
into the classrooms. Last month, we had a policeman and a doctor come in to
talk to every class. And next month, we're having a woman from Japan and a
man from Kenya come to speak.
 

W1: Oh, we met a man from Japan in the grocery store the other week, and he
got to talking about his childhood in Tokyo. My kids were absolutely
fascinated. We invited him to dinner and got to meet his wife and their
three children.
 

W2: That's nice. Hmm. Maybe we should plan some Japanese food for the
lunchroom on Multicultural Day.
 

W1: Maybe your Japanese guest could eat with the children.
 

W2: Oh, no. She's on a very tight schedule. She has two other schools to
visit that day. It's a system-wide thing we're doing.
 

W1: Oh, I'm sorry. Well, maybe you'll meet someone interesting in the
grocery store sometime and you'll end up having them over for dinner.
 

W2: I don't think so. I never talk to people in the store—certainly not
people who might not even speak my language. What if that Japanese man
hadn't spoken English?
 

W1: To tell you the truth, I never had time to think about it.
Before I even saw him, my six-year-old had asked him what he was going to do
with all the oranges he was buying.
 

W2: Your child talks to strangers?
 

W1: I was right there with him. He knows that as long as he's with me, he
can talk to anyone he wishes.
 

W2: But you're developing dangerous habits in him. My children never talk to
strangers.
 

W1: Not even when they're with you?
 

W2: They're never with me, except at home after school. So you see why it's
so important for them to understand that talking to strangers is a big
no-no.
 

W1: Yes, I do. But if they were with you, they could get to meet interesting
people and still be safe. They'd get a taste of the real world, in real
settings. They'd also get a real feel for how to tell when a situation is
dangerous or suspicious.
 

W2: They'll get that in the third and fifth grades in their health courses.
 

W1: Well, I can tell you're a very caring mom. Let me give you my number—if
you ever want to talk, give me call. It was good to meet you.

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